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Some Christmas Reflections

Wednesday, December 20th, 2006

Last December, I posted an old letter of mine on the local liberal blog.  It was to the editor of a newspaper in Monterey, California.  Some of the examples are a little dated (it was published in 1990 – some 16 years ago), but if you’ve got the time, here’s a link to it (If you don’t have the time, just continue on):

http://www.haloscan.com/comments/panhandletruthsquad/113416374198343405/#225968

Lately, I’ve been reflecting a little more on why some people would rather avoid thinking about whose birth we’re celebrating.  While it’s true that Jesus had to be born of a woman, His ultimate mission was to die for your sins and for mine.

The words of the song “Start at the Manger” from the musical “The Christmas Post” sum it up well:

Start at the manger on a cold winter night.

Look for the star in the sky, then follow its light.

It leads to a Savior for a world that is lost.

Start at the manger, then go to the cross.

The whole idea of ones own personal sinfulness makes  people uncomfortable, especially at Christmas time, so we dwell on the peripherals:  Santa Claus, Ebenezer Scrooge, Rudolf the Red Nosed Reindeer, Frosty the Snowman.  We concentrate on the warm fuzzies and traditions of the season and try to sublimate our own feelings of worthlessness.  Yet it seems that more people suffer from depression at Christmas than any other time of the year.

Oswald Chambers tackled the issue striaght on:

“Very few of us have any understanding of the reason why Jesus Christ died.  If sympathy is all that human beings need, then the Cross of Christ is a farce, there was no need for it.  What the world needs is not ‘a little bit of love,’ but a surgical operation.”

I’ll close with the opening words of a seldom sung verse to the Christmas carol, “O Little Town of Bethlehem”:

Oh Holy Child of Bethlehem, descend to us we pray.

Cast out our sin and enter in, be born in us today.

I’d like to wish you and yours a Merry Christmas –  no, better make that a Holy, Blessed Christmas.

The $ Doesn’t Cure Sorrow

Tuesday, December 5th, 2006

In the past I have tried to keep my personal life off of this web site however something happened to me recently that I must post about. On October 30th of this year my wife, Cara, passed away. She had a blood clot in her brain that caused her brain to swell. The swelling eventually caused brain death.

However, her death is not the subject of this post. Due to the some of the events that took place prior to her death people have approached me asking if I was going to hire a lawyer and seek damages from the hospital due to possible negligence. I agree that if someone at the hospital was negligent then they should be held responsible. At the same time, however, I am not a greedy person. Medical bills are taken care of thanks to Medicaid so there is no expense there. I do have a few of Cara’s bills that I need to take care of but they are manageable.

Given that though, I will not be party to raising healthcare costs to myself and others. I might as well shoot myself in the foot and cut a fat check to a lawyer who doesn’t need the money. No amount of cash is going to bring Cara back, either. I know I have a good head on my shoulders and will not only lead a healthy life but I will also be able to provide a great life for my stepdaughter Alli. I will NOT seek monetary compensation for Cara’s death due to possible negligence. If there was negligence then I believe the people who were careless will have to deal with what they did and answer to whatever deity they follow, if any. I will NOT make a rich lawyer even richer in a process that will garner me no satisfaction whatsoever.